Dating a musician is hard
He used to turn the phone’s speaker mode on, and used to play the guitar while singing. And you know what happened to my musician boyfriend? It is said that musicians have unique brains that work in a positive way. Whatever I asked him to, no matter how silly the songs were, he never refused.And the best part is, it doesn’t matter in what situation you are in, I mean, whether you are cooking, or dressing up for a party, or even taking a small break from your work at home, your partner would harmonize their instrument, and play you multiple music. Whenever, and wherever they are playing, or not playing, you have the privilege to access the backstage, and meet your other favorite music stars.You won’t even need a pass, or no bouncer will stop you. To put a cherry on top, you get to click photos with them, selfies or not, and take their autograph too. When they are with their band, they have to coordinate with each other so that whatever music they produce must be perfect. And I have seen similar behavior in other musicians, and their partners. Since they are talented enough to coordinate perfectly, did you think of other talents that they possess?They come up with such powerful lyrics, that, if the songs are meant for you, you will be swept away from your feet. Regardless of how complicated or uncomplicated the libretto are, you have a whole song dedicated to you, and is displayed by your musician partner, and their band!Because they compose music for you doesn’t mean they do that only. Ask them to play, or sing anything, and they will never hesitate.More over, they are charming, attractive, and have unique styles of their own. Those lucky ones like me, know how amazing these musicians are.Here’s a sneak peak of some of the amazing things about dating musicians.
few years ago, I had to swear off dating musicians. unless he’s being financially supported by Mommy and Daddy. Twenty-something and thirty-something men who don’t pay their own bills have a warped view of reality. To this day I can still remember an ex-boyfriend’s most ardent groupie: she once showed up at his apartment unannounced while I was over because she was “just in the neighborhood.” He thought she was ridiculous, but he had to be polite to her because she was such a major fan.They don’t always need to be emotionally unbalanced to write songs.They can be happy, they can be tired, and they can be in love. The pop musicians will write very romantic lyrics, whereas, the rockstar musicians, or the heavy metal musicians may write some twisted lyrics that won’t make much sense to you, but trust me, the words have deep meaning.Being a Supportive Girlfriend Developing the Relationship Taking Care of Yourself Community Q&A Dating a musician, regardless of gender, is not always easy.In fact, the life of a musician can make relationships hard.
Don’t take my swearing-off musicians as a warning, per se. They have intense relationships with their band mates that will be more important to them than the relationship they have with you. It’s a wonder anyone in a band has time for a romantic relationship given how much time they spend bickering with each other over big egos, women, money, and God knows what else. So handle with care: the sweet, sensitive guy who writes you love songs is also going to be sensitive about that nasty Pitchfork commenter. Your musician boo may not write songs about you, exactly, but about your relationship or love in general.