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I want to be sure that I am getting my needs met and that I’m not just a “rebound” for him. Dear Karen, One thing I know about widowers, followed by two things I know about men.Widowers are QUICK to rebound, to a point of being unseemly.
My mom didn’t even think of meeting another man until about 3 years after my father passed away. How could you be anything BUT a rebound following a long-term marriage?He’s a recent widower (wife died of cancer in June 2010.) We started dating just after Labor Day. We live about an hour and 1/2 apart and he has a very high level job and a big house to take care of (and a dog.) There has been no sex yet but lots of “foreplay.” He says he always waits to have sex until he’s more sure of the woman.I want to see more of him at this point (3 months,) especially on Saturday nights.Is he hot when he wants to see you and cold when he doesn’t? If you showed up at his work for lunch and said, “Surprise! All very good signs that you are not his girlfriend.It can be sexy to get a late night text, but it can also be a harbinger of bad things. Wonderful has a habit of texting or calling you for a visit mostly when he’s on his way home from someplace else, your girlfriend status is in doubt.
My question is this – does this apply to widowers as well or is it fair to give him a little more time and just get busy with other things so I don’t put pressure on him?